Let keep the people as positive. Don't ask them anything for negative. Ask anything which has to be positive as per your perception. Answer may be 'yes' or 'no'. It doesn't matter, still keep them as positive.
Suppose, you ask any help regarding your benefit. You know well he / she can do it for you. Still, if he / she disagree to help you it will hurt you most, because you expected from them. There were your expectations. Great philosophers usually say that "leave expectations. If you want to be happy." we all know that we are natural human being, without expectations we cant live.
So my suggestion is to make people as positive.
Assume at 1st, he / she will help you or not. If yes then ask. Ask in a way, so that he / she will give you a positive answer. Avoid negativity. But, assume the negative too, which can give you solution how to achieve the positive one.
Dominate people, manipulate people so that they can be a favour of your positivity. There is the another trick to make positive answer from negative. Think what will be their profit if they help you. If you recognize that, their negative answer will be the positive one in your favour. Do not beg for help. Let them beg. Do request with pseudo order which shows positive vibe.
For example: You need help regarding your study notes. You have to collect from your faculty. Due to illness you can not. So you can request to anyone in a positive way. Do not beg. Like, "Bro, kindly bring my notes, it will be helpful for me.".. the receiver has to do it, he/she has no option reject. Cause, indirectly you already have given a order with a positive vibe. If you ask to do it, like, "bro can you bring it for me?“. The receiver has option. He/she may say" I will do it later" or "no, I can not.".
Just pass order indirectly.
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